A Gender-Neutral Playlist

Looking for a gender-neutral playlist? 

Even in 2021, it’s hard to find gender-neutral romance songs, let alone a gender-neutral wedding playlist. The world is so binary, especially in the mainstream media. But you’re on the LGBTQIA+ spectrum and as such, you want/demand/hope for something that is a bit more unique. Especially for your wedding! Who wants to listen to hours and hours of songs, irritated by the constant hims and hers. Some songs are amazing, but your partner is trans. Do those pronouns even work? “They” hasn’t really hit the mainstream music industry, so it’s high time to find the perfect gender-neutral wedding playlist that will feel even more special for you. I scoured the internet for resources and after spending way too long slogging my way through good and terrible songs, I decided to come up with a Spotify playlist for those looking for awesome gender-neutral wedding songs!

I also steadfastly avoided the majority of over-popular songs. I’m sorry, but I’m really really sick of “Just The Way You Are” by Bruno Mars. Apologies if you’ve chosen this song for something during your wedding. I just do dozens of events every year and this song is not unique. But ignore my hypocritical ass, because I love the shit out of “A Thousand Years” by Christina Perri. Makes me choke up every time. I’m sure you’ll find something to love on this LGBTQIA+ wedding playlist. These songs are on repeat for me!

Any, enjoy, follow my gender-neutral playlist and have fun! If you use one of the suggestions, please let me know! Looking to book an LGBTQIA+ wedding photographer? Make sure to contact us for more information!

 

Arro Verse – Marry Me
Norah Jones – Come Away with me
Stevie Wonder – For once in my life
Keane – Somewhere Only We Know
Bright Eyes – First Day of My Life
Death Cab for Cutie – I Will Follow You into the Dark
Etta James – At Last
David Gray – This Years Love
Train – Marry Me
Sara Bareilles – I Choose You
Brett Every – What a Beautiful Day
The Beatles – Here Comes the Sun

2021 Updated:

The Beatles – I Will
Culture Club – Love is Love
Sam Smith – Latch (Acoustic)
He is We – Skip to the Good Part
Christina Perri – A Thousand Years (this song makes me cry EVERY time I hear it)
Queen – Love of My Life
Jason Mraz – I’m Yours
Audrey Hepburn – Moon River
Savage Garden – Truly Madly Deeply (hello nostalgia)
Extreme – More Than Words
Little Mix – Secret Love Songs, Pt II
Miley Cyrus – Obsessed
John Legend – All of Me
Ella Henderson – Yours
Jason Mraz – Love Someone
Sam Smith – Latch
Ray LaMontagne – You Are the Best Thing
Ellie Goulding – Love Me Like You Do
Adele – Make You Feel My Love
Maren Morris – The Bone (loooove this song)
Calvin Harris – Feel So Close
Calum Scott – You Are the Reason
Cat Power – Sea of Love
Mariah Carey – Dreamlover
Temper Trap – Sweet Disposition
Ben Folds – The Luckiest
LP – When We’re High
Billie Eilish – Ocean Eyes
Labrinth – Sexy MF (dirty but upbeat)

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